The surprising success of the #prayfor campaign

As the famous quote goes: “Every successful idea births countless imitations”.

Ok it’s not famous, I just made it up.

I can’t remember the first time I saw a “#prayfor___” tweet but one of the first was definitely #prayforJapan after the deadly tsunami last year.

In more recent times #prayforMuamba made headlines. The Sun even published a “God is in control” headline on their front page as the country rallied around the young footballer.

Negatives 

Let me get my cynicism out of the way and then we can end on a positive note. Deal?

Who is everyone praying to? Forgive me for daring to raise the question, but it seems strange to me that few #prayfor tweeters are actually asking that question. Is there one God or many gods? Do all religions lead to God, or do just some of them or one of them?

The very fact that some of you are are now wondering “why does it matter?” proves my point.

The whole point of prayer, for me, is that your calling on a divine being to intervene in a situation. It’s not wishful thinking. Despite some empty phrases like, “You’re in my thoughts and prayers”, being used in culture, prayer itself is powerful.

But prayer is meaningless unless there is a God. Therefore anyone hash tagging #prayfor should first consider who they are praying to and not feel pressured into going along with the crowd and tweeting about prayer if they don’t believe in it.

My most pressing point is this: Do not tweet about praying if you’re not going to do it! Christians can be terrible at this, so I’m not trying to bash those outside of my faith! See here.

Positives 

This Twitter hashtag that keeps appearing proves the words of the Bishop of Oxford true: “Religion is having a hard time. Spirituality is still alive and well.”

People aren’t interested in organised religion, but they still want to have something to believe in. Prayer offers a way into that.

Some Christians are forever talking about how we’re being marginalised and the world is against us. In some ways that’s true, but we need to look at the positives. When you have hundreds of thousands of people uniting in prayer, that’s powerful.

Despite what I said about “empty phrases”, to offer to pray for someone and actually mean it and actually do it is one of the most compassionate activities anyone can do. Jesus spent a huge amount of his time praying and caring for people, and it’s good to see people in the online world do that too.

Prayer works. Whether you’re tweeting it, thinking it, saying it or interpretive dancing it. If it made absolutely no difference to anyone’s life, do you really think people would bother praying?

People will occasionally stare at me and say, “you go to church every week?” or “do you really pray?” – as if it was the biggest waste of time. My response is usually along the lines of “well I wouldn’t bother if I didn’t enjoy it” or “I wouldn’t bother if it made no difference”.

People are interested in engaging in prayer, they are doing it in considerable numbers and it’s working. So the #prayfor campaign should be welcomed. Yes, it’s not perfect for the reasons I’ve already stated.

As the hash tag continues and evolves (we’ve prayed for everything from nations to presidents to kids with cancer) it will become the “cool” thing to do. But that doesn’t bother me. The more people Jesus gets to talk to, the better. Let’s face it, praying to him isn’t a bad deal. Who else can you say will always listen and always has your best interests at heart?

 


Apprentice Predictions

I love The Apprentice.

This year’s series has been the best yet with some great new tasks, classic Lord Sugar quotes and the contestants reaching whole new levels of ‘stupid’!

I first made predictions on The Apprentice in 2010. I tend to do this when there are still 10 contestants left, so apologies I’m late to the game this series. In 2010 I correctly predicted Stella English would make the final three. In 2011 I correctly predicted Tom Pellereau would make the final four. He went on to win.

So now for 2012. We have only 5 candidates left; Adam, Jade, Nick, Ricky and Tom.

Adam Corbally has developed a reputation for being constantly out of his comfort zone. He’s told everyone he’s a market trader, and comes across as being a simple, pun-loving chap. He’s made a fair few mistakes in the process but I think his ‘rough and readiness’ has made him popular with the boss. Most intriguingly, the persona he’s created for The Apprentice is the sheer opposite of his posh website I’ve found. This can mean one of two things 1) he won the apprentice and the posh website has been paid for in part by the £250,000 investment to get things going 2) Fame has gone to his head and he’s attempting to market himself as a “popular motivational coach”. Verdict: As much as I love the guy, I don’t think he quite walks the walk. Twitter – @theadamcorbally

 

According to Jade Nash she doesn’t have any annoying habits, but I’ve witnessed a fairly major one. Her voice. I can’t think of much else to say. I’m not sure why she’s still in the process. Verdict: She’s out next. Twitter – @therealjadenash

 

 

 

25 year old Nick Holzherr has already proved himself winning ‘emerging entrepreneur of the year’ from Insider Magazine in 2010. Consistently strong, he’s won plenty of tasks and I can’t ever remember him coming close to being fired. His website isn’t as flashy as Adam’s. But I don’t know if that’s a good or bad sign. Verdict: Would deserve to win, will definitely make the top 3. Twitter – @nickholzherr

 

Ricky Martin – I know that Holzherr is a pretty awesome surname and Martin isn’t. But when you combine Ricky and Martin together, that’s when the magic happens. Not to be confused with the Spanish Livin’ La Vida Loca singer, Ricky instead has a pineapple shaped head and spends much of his time not singing, but wrestling. Aside from gelling his quiff and hugging other sweaty men, Ricky has found the time to be a “successful recruitment manager”. I’m not going to pretend to understand exactly what that means, but I do know that since last week’s deal on the show, Ricky has risen to become a front running contender for this year’s grand prize. Verdict: Convincing but soon to go. Twitter- @Rickymartin247

 

Tom Gearing - admits he doesn’t handle early mornings very well. He’s certainly demonstrated that on the series so far. But blurry eyed surly Tom isn’t to be dismissed. I’m unsurprised he’s made it this far. Both Nick and Karen have spoken very highly of him, and despite coming across as arrogant, most of the time the 23 year old’s instincts are spot on. Verdict: Dom Joly has already picked him as the winner and I’m going to too. Twitter- @Thomas_Gearing

 

 

 

Want more?

I can highly recommend Matt Edminson’s Funny Bits which should be renamed “hillarious bits” or “laugh-until-you-cry bits”.

Finally, last year’s winner Tom recently got married and tweeted pictures throughout his special day. Should I do the same? Discuss below…


Twitter and Freedom of Speech

I’m in the habit of writing tweets that never get read.

That’s not because I have 0 followers, but because I’ll write a tweet, stare at it and think “do I really want to say this?”. Quite a lot of the time the answer is “no way” and the “tweet” button will never be pressed.

I don’t mean to make out that I’m wonderfully controlled and am always really careful what I say on Twitter. Sadly that’s not true. I’m a work in progress in all areas of my life, including this one.

Nevertheless, three recent stories in the media have really made me think.

1. The first was the case of Liam Stacey who has been sentenced to 56 days in prison after he made racist comments on Twitter.

The tweet in question? “LOL. F*** Muamba. He’s dead!!! #haha”, presumably without the stars.

2. The second story broke about this time last night. Mrs Speaker tweeted she was tempted to try the drug Mexxi before it’s made illegal.

“Am I the only one now slightly tempted to try mexxy before it becomes illegal? I won’t, obvs”. Her comments came just days after the drug has been linked to the death of at least two people, leading to her being labelled “insensitive”. I found both the Daily Mail‘s Headline “Will She Ever Learn?” and Mrs Speaker terming the paper the “Daily Fail” pretty amusing.

3. Finally, according to Reuters, Kuwaiti authorities arrested a man on Tuesday for insulting Mohammed over Twitter.

That’s three stories about Twitter in one week. Oh wait, I’m wrong. The biggest story about Twitter this week is that the company has admitted there’s a bug going around that will make your account unfollow people randomly, without your permission (thus providing all of us with a wonderful excuse the next time someone asks why you’re not following them).

Presumably the legislature that allowed Liam and the Kuwaiti man to be arrested applies to Facebook too, and, come to think of it…this blog. I’m hardly the most controversial of bloggers, but it’s still a scary thought that what I write here could get me arrested.

I would not defend any of the above tweets. But I would question if arresting people for what they say on Twitter is fair. It’s a grey area.

Some would argue that just as someone walking up to me in the street and hurling racist language warrants arrest, the same rules should apply in the online world.

On the other hand, millions of views are expressed on Twitter every minute. Fanatic and offensive views aren’t normally read by thousands. And if they are, a large percentage of those thousands will write back and give the tweeter plenty of grief!

This happens all the time with celebrities. Let’s say I tweet that Dom Joly is the least funny person on the planet. He’ll retweet my message, sending it to his 133,000 followers. 10,000 of those followers will then hurl abuse at me in turn. It’s basically Karma. And it’s beautiful.

So which of these two philosophies on Twitter and free speech is best? I err on the side of the latter, but I’m open to persuasion either way. I look forward to reading your comments and watching the wider debate grow. I think this is an issue that will run and run as time goes on…


Kony 2012 / The Retweet Rebellion

For the past week, Facebook and Twitter have been screaming at me to watch a video titled Kony 2012.

(I suggest you watch it before reading any of the below)

My immediate reaction when I saw people pushing the film a week ago was, “how do you have the time to watch a 30 minute video?”

Kind of ironic considering what I had just blogged about.

As far as I’m aware, this is the first time a video longer than 5 minutes has gone viral. That is surely an achievement in itself.

I am often guilty of cynicism and negativity. At the same time, I do like a good laugh. It was the latter of these qualities, namely humour that led me to post this picture on Facebook:

The reaction wasn’t great. Looks like I upset a few people. Oops!

To be fair, as the blogosphere became more agitated with the film, and the makers finally responded with the world’s longest defensive explanation, I did also re-tweet this from  @RobKelly123

“Keep going Kony, lad. We’ll all argue about a video while you crack on, son #sarcasm #KONY2012 #typical21stcentury” 

So even in my humour, I did my best to be balanced. But to be fair I shouldn’t have said anything at all. I still hadn’t watched the film!

After a couple of people joked that they “don’t know what to think” until or unless I blog on the subject (please note the word joke), I thought I’d add my two cents. So I watched the film while waiting for a train at Clapham Junction on Sunday afternoon.

Fame = ?

The entire documentary pivots on one assumed idea: “Making Kony well known for his crime will put pressure on governments to do something about it.”

It appears to me that a lot of people have an unwavering belief in that statement. But making someone famous doesn’t immediately lead to their capture. In fact arguably, he is already very famous.

You can’t be totally unknown while remaining number one on the International Criminal Court (ICC)’s most wanted list! While much of the Western World is oblivious to his existence, Africans know exactly who he is, and the people in power to stop him are well aware of his despicable crimes. The question is: “Will highlighting his existence to the world help capture him?”.

Awareness without action is pointless.

We live in an era where the revolution is televised, and as we saw in Cairo, it often begins with social media.

But can we really call re-tweeting a video the beginnings of a rebellion?

Watching a film does nothing for those caught in this terrible situation. Writing this blog does nothing. What about giving money to the charity behind this film – Invisible Children?

Invisible Children has been criticised for only spending around 30% of their budget on direct help for those in Uganda. The charity responded by saying many NGOs have a similar set up, with money going into other projects and admin costs.

White man’s burden?

Some have used the phrase “white man’s burden” to describe the film. In other words, the West has resources Africa doesn’t have, therefore we have a duty to help them. This can be viewed in one of two ways: Western generosity, or Westerners meddling in business that isn’t their own. Ugandans apparently see it as the latter.

The politics of intervention

It’s interesting that the same people who protested about our wars in Afghanistan and Iraq are jumping on the Kony bandwagon. Why is it OK for the West to intervene in some circumstances, but not others? That’s a question all of us need to ask ourselves.

There have been a number of unfair criticisms of the Kony campaign. No 30 minute program will ever be perfect, no charity and no campaign will ever be 100% pure. The idea is innovative and original. The heart behind the idea is good and the people involved are genuine.

Having said all this, the filmmaker does come across as proud and even arrogant at points. “We did this”, he repeats triumphantly. It’s immature and unrealistic to say taking down one man will “change the world forever” and have a lasting impact on the next generation of Americans. While removing Kony from his position should be celebrated, the film is full of exaggeration.

There aren’t 30,000 children walking around carrying guns right now. There’s 200, perhaps. What’s more, there’s no mention of how the LRA’s enemy – the Ugandan government is brutal. The LRA probably wouldn’t even exist if it wasn’t for the genocidal Ugandan army. Yet Invisible Children want to work with the Ugandan government on this project.

Final remarks

These are just some of the issues I’ve found after trawling the internet and reading plenty of articles from people who know more about this subject than I ever will.

It’s dangerous to swallow anything without researching it. Even something that looks great, important and vital can have its flaws.

Many including myself are concerned that millions of people have seen this video and not realised the situation is far from simple. It’s not a case of marching into the jungle and capturing or even killing Kony. He’s surrounded by people’s sons and daughters. Even if we did manage to shoot him, would that stop the violence? Killing Bin Laden hasn’t stopped Al Qaeda.

I take no joy in smearing a great campaign with mud. But when 30 minutes of emotional, heart-tugging footage doesn’t tell the full story, it’s up to the blogosphere to address the balance.

What matters now is each of us have a choice. None of us can plead ignorance. There’s an evil man who must be stopped. The Kony 2012 video has reminded us that each of us have a voice. The video suggests one way to use that voice. [Illegal fly posting and retweeting] But it’s only a suggestion. My view is both are as useless as each other.

Yet the message behind the campaign deserves to be heard, and that’s why we’re all indebted to Invisible Children.

Is it time to come up with some alternatives to the action Invisible Children has suggested? Or do we need to accept that there are some issues which are out of our hands? In a world where social media gives all of us both a voice and an audience, that’s a controversial remark to make. We like to think we have power, influence and can “change the world”.

Perhaps we can change the world? But fly-postering London with Kony posters (as the video suggests) seems like a strange way to go about making that change…


Goodbye Facebook?

Have you heard about the latest craze?

If you’re thinking “Is it Facebook?”, your living so far in the past, you might as well be hanging out with the Victorians.

No, the new craze isn’t about joining Facebook (800 million of us have already done that), it’s about leaving it.

While I doubt the statistics released by Facebook’s PR machine would agree with me, I think the social media giant may be reaching its peak.

No longer am I regularly receiving friend requests from long lost friends. It’s much more common to read about people “taking a break” (only a brave few totally delete their account) from Facebook than it is gain an extra friend.

There are millions of reasons why you would give up Facebook.  If you’re struggling to see why spending lots of time talking about yourself in the 3rd person and telling people where you are at every moment is a bad thing, then do yourself a favour and read around the subject. This is a good place to start.

You can either say “Facebook allows me to share my life with those that I want to keep in contact with” or “Facebook allows me to build superficial or even entirely fake relationships not real and lasting ones”.

But Facebook is a tool. It can be used for good or ill. A saw can be used to cut someone free and bring them to safety, or it can be used to saw someone’s …ok I’ll stop there. You get the point. Facebook is neither good nor evil. Its moral status is entirely dependent on the attitude of the user (ie YOU)

If you find yourself being pulled into an attitude of “the world revolves around me”, it may be time to jump ship. Similarly if you are genuinely addicted to Facebook, you need to ask yourself some serious questions. But if your concern is regarding privacy, then please don’t panic. Security settings exist for a reason. You are in control of what people see, not Facebook!

I think there are many plus sides to giving up Facebook. But a surprising amount of people are replacing their Facebook addiction with a Twitter one.

I’ve blogged before about the downsides of social media here and here. At the bottom of one of those posts (written over a year ago) I even promised to blog about the plus sides of Facebook. It seemed that never happened. Oops.

I’m eager to hear your thoughts on this. Are a lot of your friends giving up Facebook? Would you consider it? While you’re having a think about that, I’d better get to work on my “The Pros of Facebook” post, it has been 18 months in the making!


What’s The Big Deal About Steve Jobs?

Thanks to social media, news travels faster than ever. 

When famous people pass away the world knows about it almost instantly. Both my Twitter “Timeline” and Facebook “News Feed” have been dominated by tributes to Steve Jobs. So it may surprise you to learn that in the last 24 hours I’ve overheard more than one person ask the question:

Who is Steve Jobs?”

Many who ask this question own a product invented by the man himself. Although Jobs’ popularity has soared in recent years, he was only known to technology geeks for most of his life. The wider public hadn’t really heard of him until the iPod and iPhone started taking off.

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Twitter Tips

  1. RT (retweet) more! Other people have good things to say too, so don’t make Twitter all about you.
  2. It’s about quality not quantity when it comes to followers. Some people have hundreds of followers but very few of them are real people. They are just businesses following thousands of other people, trying (in vain) to generate publicity.
  3. If you’re not a journalist, don’t pretend to be one. You were not the first to break the news, you merely saw it on your Twitter timeline and put it in your own words. Not cool. People following real journalists saw the news before you tweeted it. Don’t waste your time!
  4. Sometimes you want to tag people (using @), sometimes you don’t. Smart people know when to tag and when not to tag. If you’re having a go at a celebrity, you don’t want to tag them. Because all the celebrity will do is retweet your nasty message and get his or hers thousands of followers to send you hate messages!
  5. If you don’t have many followers, you probably never hash tag. Hash tagging popular words practically guarantees more followers, however remember tip one.
  6. Twitter is not a place for your publicly airing your private and/or lengthy conversations. Private messaging is there for a reason!
  7. Don’t be afraid to unfollow people. It’s not as frowned upon as deleting someone as a friend on Facebook, and it’s very unlikely they will even notice you did it! There’s no obligation to follow friends on Twitter. Just follow people who you find interesting.
  8. Talkback to people. Twitter is a community, so jump in and talk to people, even if you’ve never met them.
  9. Go mobile. If you aren’t tweeting away from your computer, you’re probably missing the point. Just don’t go crazy and over do it. There’s nothing worse than someone who tweets every minute!
  10. Be wary of self promotion. If your reason for tweeting is just to promote yourself or your website, blog or book then people will get bored of you very quickly. Try and tweet about a variety of things.

Finally, just to break my own final tip….click here to follow me.


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